nono for men
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okae.. i can be very generous and accepting but one thing that i cannot stand is when guys SHOUT or RAISE their voices at me. It's a phobia that developed into a dislike. So whenever i hear a guy talking to me very loudly. i simply shut off or get upset. Becos it reminds me of unhappy incidents at home.
Another thing that turns me off immediately is VIOLENCE. If the guy ever hits me or attempts to, i would stay super duper far from him. No matter how angry you are, no one should lay a finger on anyone. Violence is just wrong. i am anti-violence. Even if i see the guy getting into a fight, i would do the same and stay away. my theory is, what if he gets drunk one day and hits you cos he can't control? I will never forget the ONE slap i gotten in my entire life by that particular person. It's an invisible scar, a mark left for life, a wound that will never be healed.
and one of the other NONO from a guy to me is; being un-gentleman. Don't tell me that it's equality, men and women are the same now. i dun give a shit this is dumbarse crap. ok. this is rubbish. If you as a guy think it's OK that a female holds the lift's door for you and she goes out after you, you are so wrong. CHANGE your thinking before you are left on the shelf, ok little boy? That is one of the many examples. i shall not go into detail.
As you can see, i don't have very good impression on guys now. Especially the older generation excluding most expatriates, they think it's only right that a girl(me), opens the door for them, give up my seat when i am on a public transport.. well, by all means and services and whatnotcrap, i will be happy to do so for you if you are like 60-80ish years old and have problems with walking, BUT what if! WHAT IF! you are young, healthy and strong. WTH?! i still have to do that for you? so ungentlemanly. heh....
Congrats to those who have graduated today. (=
posted by JL @ 2:37 PM
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