Listen for Love
Feeling: back painPlaying: The Fish
Location: TSP
Have you been too caught up with the things around you lately? In turn, it causes some "blindness".
I don't know about you but I have been so blinded that I started to NOT see the goodness and love that have been surrounding me all these while.
I honestly feel bad and guilty for not "listening to love". I refer to my Mom, aunties and Kris.
I know Kris have been really patient with me and all but I threw a few tantrums becos I was blinded by tiredness and I wanted Kris to show me love the way I wanted, which is actually very very inconsiderate of me.
I am sorry dear. Love you lots!
(I just hope this will touch some of you...)
Let me share a story with you...
There are times when we are timid and shy about expressing the love we feel. For fear of embarrassing the other person, or ourselves, we hesitate to say the actual words "I love you" So we try to communicate the idea in other words.
We say "take care" or "don't drive too fast" or "be good". But really, these are just other ways of saying "I love you, you are important to me, I care what happens to you, I don't want you to get hurt."
We are sometimes very strange beings. The only thing we want to say, and the one thing that we should say, is the one thing we don't say. And yet because the feeling is so real, and the need to say it is so strong, we are driven to use other words and signs to say what we really mean. And many times the meaning never gets communicated at all and the other person is left feeling unloved and unwanted.
Therefore, we have to LISTEN FOR LOVE in the words that people are saying to us. Sometimes the explicit words are necessary, but more often, the manner of saying things is even more important.
A joyous insult carries more affection and love within the sentiments, which are expressed insincerely. An impulsive hug says I LOVE YOU even though the words might be saying very different.
Any expression of a person's concern for another says I love you. Sometimes the expression is clumsy, sometimes even cruel. Sometimes we must look and listen very intently for the love that it contains. But it is often there, beneath the surface. A mother may nag her son constantly about his grades or cleaning his room. The son may hear only the nagging, but if he listens carefully, he will hear the love underneath the nagging.
His mother wants him to do well, to be successful. Her concern and love for her son unfortunately emerge in her nagging.But it is love all the same.
A daughter comes home late, way past her curfew, and her father confronts her with angry words. The daughter may hear only the anger, but if she listens carefully, she will hear the love under the anger.
"I was worried about you," the father is saying, "Because I care about you and I love you. You are important to me."
We say I love you in many ways- with birthday gifts, and little notes, with smiles and sometimes with tears. Sometimes we show our love by just keeping quiet and not saying a word, at other times by speaking out, even brusquely. We show our love sometimes by impulsiveness.
Many times we have to show our love by forgiving someone who has not listened to the love we have tried to express. The problem in listening for love is that we don't always understand the language of love, which the other person is using.
A girl may use tears or emotions to say what she wants to say, and her boyfriend may not understand her because he expects her to be talking his language. Thus, we have to force ourselves to really listen for love. The problem with our world is that people rarely listen to each other.
They hear the words, but they don't listen to the actions that accompany the words or the expression on the face. Or people listen only for rejection or misunderstanding. They do not see the love that is there just beneath the surface, even if the words are angry.
Simon and Garfunkel wrote that very haunting song, The sound of silence. It goes ten thousand people, maybe more. People talking without speaking; people hearing without listening; people writing songs that voices never shared, because no one dared disturb the sound of silence.
It is a terrifying picture of our modern world, a world without communication and without love. We have to listen for love in those around us. If we listen intently we will discover that we are a lot more loved than we realize.
Listen for love and we will find that the world is a very loving place, after all.
Love is the ability to wait
Love is always doing good to others
Love rejoices in others' success
Love never boasts about what it does
Love does not look down on others
Love is courteous and polite
Love focuses on helping others succeed
Love does not get angry easily
Love looks at the good side of people
Love is broken-hearted when someone sins
Love is glad when there is uprightness and justice
Love is willing to carry others' burdens
Love keeps believing even when one keeps failing
Love does not give up when all have given up
Love is willing to go through excruciating pain.
There is more hunger for love and appreciation in this world than for bread. Loneliness and the feeling of being unwanted is the most terrible poverty. -Mother Teresa
posted by JL @ 10:27 AM
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